Fathers
The
father or partner, may be better able to provide continuous support
but has little actual experience in dealing with the forces of
labor. Even fathers who have had intensive preparation are often
surprised at the amount of work involved (more than enough for two
people). Even more important, many fathers experience the birth as
an emotional journey of their own and find it hard to be objective
in such a situation. -DONA
Will the Doula replace the
father?
Some
fathers or partners are concerned they may be displaced by the doula
during labor. ADOBE doulas will not replace the father. A responsible
doula supports and encourages the father and enhances his support style
rather than replaces him. The doula allows for the partner to
participate at their own comfort level and will make sure that the
partner's needs are being met as well as the mother's. In fact, studies
have shown that fathers/partners usually participate more actively
during labor in the presence of a doula than without one.
-DONA